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« Reply #30 on: July 08, 2009, 10:29:23 AM »


And from a philosophical point of view, religion is NOT "a set of beliefs that explain what life is all about, who we are, and the most important things that human beings should spend their life doing"

It is ONLY "a set of faith-assumptions about the nature of things". It is nothing but pure speculation about the world with no evidence at all, hence faith.


Why is it only the latter and not the former? The former just lays out more clearly what the latter includes. And it was in philosophy class that I first came across this definition of religion. Timothy Keller merely reiterates this definition more succinctly than I could from memory.
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« Reply #31 on: July 08, 2009, 10:46:29 AM »


if humans have free will, isn't it possible that they also have the ability to understand morality on their own without the help of God?

this question applies to indigenous tribes, anyone raised an atheist, or anyone that has no conception of Christianity (or other religions that claim their God is the sole source of morality).  these sorts do exist, yet their lack of religious awareness would indicate that they must be total heathens without any true concept of right or wrong. 
just because someone is Godless doesn't mean they are 100% amoral; it really bothers me when Christians imply that they are or that the Godless must derive their morality from religion without being willing to admit it.


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I'm confused. Where did I imply that the godless are amoral? I was trying to say that the moral laws described by Christianity are universal and apply to people of all faiths. What is wrong with saying that others derive their morality unwittingly from the same principles described by Christianity?
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« Reply #32 on: July 08, 2009, 03:11:46 PM »


if humans have free will, isn't it possible that they also have the ability to understand morality on their own without the help of God?

this question applies to indigenous tribes, anyone raised an atheist, or anyone that has no conception of Christianity (or other religions that claim their God is the sole source of morality).  these sorts do exist, yet their lack of religious awareness would indicate that they must be total heathens without any true concept of right or wrong. 
just because someone is Godless doesn't mean they are 100% amoral; it really bothers me when Christians imply that they are or that the Godless must derive their morality from religion without being willing to admit it.


just some thoughts (=


I'm confused. Where did I imply that the godless are amoral? I was trying to say that the moral laws described by Christianity are universal and apply to people of all faiths. What is wrong with saying that others derive their morality unwittingly from the same principles described by Christianity?

The only thing really wrong with it is that you consider morals, laws. I never understood that. Morals are nothing more than thoughts on how we should act. Don't get me wrong, many laws are in fact based on morals, but that doesn't make the moral itself a law.

I don't go out and steal from a bakery; yet, if I did, there would be no "moral police" arresting me. Of course, there would be real police, because a law was derived from our morals, but morals themselves are not laws, commandments, or beings telling you how to act.

Morals are evolutionary products that help us survive and reproduce. They do this by keeping us safe (i.e. having a larger population to fight off enemies and reproduce with.), they keep us in good standing with our neighbors so that we would be more likely to survive and reproduce, and they keep us from harming ourselves.

Can you please explain to me why you think they are laws?
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« Reply #33 on: July 08, 2009, 06:59:39 PM »




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please reply (respectfully) to the arguments made by C.S. Lewis in the beginning of Book I, Chapter 2 (Some Objections), of Mere Christianity
^this was to L_R, but I'm adding my two cents.

first: that 'third thing' which motivates people to help could be easily societal pressure, one's desire to not have others look down on oneself, self-discipline (feeling obligated to do something in an effort to uphold one's own standards), etc.
if it -is- divinely inspired, I think it's only because religious pressures have dictated such things (pre-Christian, even); however, I think the clearest possibility is that humans have always done, as they must've realised early on that the species cannot survive if one allows others to perish.

humans are NOT the only species to help others in need; dolphins are known to do this, as do whales and an innumerable amount of other life forms.
if God favours humans, why would other mammals and animals do such things?

I still haven't seen sufficient evidence that our morals are solely derived from God.


the last bit about witches:
so what if we did, at one point, believe in their existence?
why is it okay to kill them?

either it's okay to kill or it's not; why can't God make up His mind?
(there are plenty of times in the bible 'thou shalt not kill' is contradicted)


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I'm confused. Where did I imply that the godless are amoral? I was trying to say that the moral laws described by Christianity are universal and apply to people of all faiths. What is wrong with saying that others derive their morality unwittingly from the same principles described by Christianity?

I think that it's unfair to say that all people derive their morality from the Christian God and only the Christian God.  there are plenty of belief systems that existed before Christianity that share many of the same principals and morals; it seems presumptuous to assign the root of all moral behaviour to something that was first created after the fact.




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Question with boldness even the existence of a god; because if there be one he must approve of the homage of reason more than that of blindfolded fear.

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« Reply #34 on: July 09, 2009, 09:37:54 AM »


And from a philosophical point of view, religion is NOT "a set of beliefs that explain what life is all about, who we are, and the most important things that human beings should spend their life doing"

It is ONLY "a set of faith-assumptions about the nature of things". It is nothing but pure speculation about the world with no evidence at all, hence faith.


Why is it only the latter and not the former? The former just lays out more clearly what the latter includes. And it was in philosophy class that I first came across this definition of religion. Timothy Keller merely reiterates this definition more succinctly than I could from memory.

Because religion is a broad term.

religion [ri?lij?n]
noun
the belief in and worship of a superhuman controlling power, esp. a personal God or gods : ideas about the relationship between science and religion.
• details of belief as taught or discussed : when the school first opened they taught only religion, Italian, and mathematics.
• a particular system of faith and worship : the world's great religions.
• a pursuit or interest to which someone ascribes supreme importance : consumerism is the new religion.

That is from the Oxford American Dictionary.

No where does it say, "a set of beliefs that explain what life is all about, who we are, and the most important things that human beings should spend their life doing."

Some religions do explain what life is about. It most likely isn't a correct explanation, but that do explain. The difference is, what religion IS and what religion DOES.

As far as your other post, and Pyro's, which I have yet to read, I am getting there. It's been a really tiring week.
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« Reply #35 on: July 10, 2009, 11:07:21 AM »


first: that 'third thing' which motivates people to help could be easily societal pressure, one's desire to not have others look down on oneself, self-discipline (feeling obligated to do something in an effort to uphold one's own standards), etc.
if it -is- divinely inspired, I think it's only because religious pressures have dictated such things (pre-Christian, even); however, I think the clearest possibility is that humans have always done, as they must've realised early on that the species cannot survive if one allows others to perish.


Where does the societal pressure originate from, though? What dictates that society frown upon murder and smile upon giving up one's own life for the sake of another? Where does it all come from, when you get right down to it? I believe it is built into nature itself, by God, who made this world to work a certain way and allow for some rewarded choices while penalizing other choices. Because it's built into nature itself and not an arbitrary set of rules made up by man, I consider these "rules" to be laws, as inescapable as the law of gravity.
What do you mean by pre-Christian? If Christ is not only the center but also the Originator of all history, which I believe, and I had the impression that you sort of believed, too, then how can anything be pre-Christian? I must have presumed to be some of your beliefs those which were only my own. Please clarify where you see Jesus Christ fitting into all of this (the one who created man and woman to be together and referred to this pairing exclusively in his teachings on marriage).
I also wonder why current morals passed on by society allow for the killing of our future contributors to that very society they're trying to preserve. But that's for the abortion forum...
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« Reply #36 on: July 10, 2009, 11:12:07 AM »


the last bit about witches:
so what if we did, at one point, believe in their existence?
why is it okay to kill them?

either it's okay to kill or it's not; why can't God make up His mind?
(there are plenty of times in the bible 'thou shalt not kill' is contradicted)

Please remember that "Thou" is the singular familiar form, not the plural or formal form. God is addressing individuals, whereas he gives authority (and the weighted responsibility) to kill when it's needed.
Why is it okay to have sex in some contexts and not in others (i.e. with animals)? Why can't God make up his mind?
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« Reply #37 on: July 10, 2009, 11:18:30 AM »


the last bit about witches:
so what if we did, at one point, believe in their existence?
why is it okay to kill them?

either it's okay to kill or it's not; why can't God make up His mind?
(there are plenty of times in the bible 'thou shalt not kill' is contradicted)

Please remember that "Thou" is the singular familiar form, not the plural or formal form. God is addressing individuals, whereas he gives authority (and the weighted responsibility) to kill when it's needed.
Why is it okay to have sex in some contexts and not in others (i.e. with animals)? Why can't God make up his mind?

Why CAN'T God make up his mind?
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« Reply #38 on: July 10, 2009, 01:39:23 PM »



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Where does the societal pressure originate from, though? What dictates that society frown upon murder and smile upon giving up one's own life for the sake of another? Where does it all come from, when you get right down to it? I believe it is built into nature itself, by God, who made this world to work a certain way and allow for some rewarded choices while penalizing other choices.

I can see where you're coming from, and because the laws of nature work so well, it's easy and tempting to assign a creator to such marvels.  still, I think it's a bit too easy to just say 'God wants x, so x it shall be.'  humans have consistently shown that they must have answers (for life, for their behavioural patterns, for what that mysterious noise in the corridor was); as such, they most often jump to the quickest conclusion they're able to make
(ie Ghosts!  God!  a criminal!  my evil boss!).
people often abandon logic simply to have an answer at their disposal.  assumptions usually come most naturally before an individual decides to either pursue a factual and/or more plausible explanation - or, in some cases, it's just left at the assumption with no desire or motivation to find another explanation.


in any case, i still think a lot of it comes down to evolution, societal pressures, and perhaps (in some cases) even a sense of arrogance.
I'm sure you certainly don't smile about the fundamentalists that gave their lives for their version of 'the greater good' on 11 sept.  however, many of their peers certainly -did- smile: to them, the cause was worth dying for, no matter how much you and I are disgusted by such acts.

martyrdom is relative, and in every case you can find those that agree with the situation's cause - and those that disagree.
because of this relativity/subjectivity, it makes far more sense to assign society and/or evolution as the key influence.


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What do you mean by pre-Christian? If Christ is not only the center but also the Originator of all history,...

I'm talking about all those years that fit into the 'BC' category,  not to mention ancient religions that pre-date Christianity. 
further, I've always had trouble believing Jesus -is- God; they've always been separate in my mind, ever since I can first recall learning anything about religion.  (I've been told otherwise, but it's still never struck me that way.)
I'm not entirely sure that I believe He's the son of God, either; for the most part, it's been so engrained that I have difficulty -not- believing it, but I still do call it into question.


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(the one who created man and woman to be together and referred to this pairing exclusively in his teachings on marriage)...
i don't suppose He really could've sat there and added, 'and the transgendered and transsexual and homosexual', as it would've slowed things down a bit.
even still, i think gays should at least be allowed recognition in their relationships, especially as so many straight people have managed to ruin marriage's reputation throughout the years.


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I also wonder why current morals passed on by society allow for the killing of our future contributors to that very society they're trying to preserve. But that's for the abortion forum...

I will re-quote this there, as I think it needs attention.


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God is addressing individuals, whereas he gives authority (and the weighted responsibility) to kill when it's needed.

when is it needed?
even if war is a necessary evil, I was always under the impression (and I recall reading a bible quote about this exact matter) that war is the absolute last course of action that should take place; that we need to exhaust all alternatives before consenting to war (mass-murder).
that doesn't often seem to be the case, especially where holy wars are concerned.


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Why can't God make up his mind?
I don't know; why can't he?*
he certainly changes his mind about abortion* where infidelity is concerned.

regarding sexual behaviours:
I think (the majority of) humans biologically aren't wired to view animals & insects as sexual objects.  I also think societal pressures have been round long enough when it comes to human/animal cross-breeding, as well.

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« Reply #39 on: July 11, 2009, 02:30:28 PM »


I think that it's unfair to say that all people derive their morality from the Christian God and only the Christian God.  there are plenty of belief systems that existed before Christianity that share many of the same principals and morals; it seems presumptuous to assign the root of all moral behaviour to something that was first created after the fact.


But that's just it; I'm saying that Christianity didn't come up with the morals; God did, at the very beginning, and instilled them in creation. The fact that many belief systems share the same principals and morals attests to the fact that morality is not about coming up with rules but discovering them; where we differ is where we have misinterpreted reality. I'm saying that true Christianity--which all of us misinterpret, excepting Christ Jesus--describes perfectly how the moral laws work in this world. For example, one of the morals laid out in the Bible and in history is that men are not to act on attractions to men and likewise women toward women. I think you'll remember the study I gave you laying out how all civilizations follow a pattern of moral disintegration, as discovered by Carl Zimmermann in his research. The American culture is stretching the limits of what God will tolerate, and I fight for a lengthening (if not a turnaround) of this process. I am not trying to impose my personal morals on other people's lives; I am yelling out my plea for God Almighty to spare us for the sake of those who heed his Word and want this culture to fall in line with his will for our lives.
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« Reply #40 on: July 11, 2009, 03:37:10 PM »


I think that it's unfair to say that all people derive their morality from the Christian God and only the Christian God.  there are plenty of belief systems that existed before Christianity that share many of the same principals and morals; it seems presumptuous to assign the root of all moral behaviour to something that was first created after the fact.


But that's just it; I'm saying that Christianity didn't come up with the morals; God did, at the very beginning, and instilled them in creation. The fact that many belief systems share the same principals and morals attests to the fact that morality is not about coming up with rules but discovering them; where we differ is where we have misinterpreted reality. I'm saying that true Christianity--which all of us misinterpret, excepting Christ Jesus--describes perfectly how the moral laws work in this world. For example, one of the morals laid out in the Bible and in history is that men are not to act on attractions to men and likewise women toward women. I think you'll remember the study I gave you laying out how all civilizations follow a pattern of moral disintegration, as discovered by Carl Zimmermann in his research. The American culture is stretching the limits of what God will tolerate, and I fight for a lengthening (if not a turnaround) of this process. I am not trying to impose my personal morals on other people's lives; I am yelling out my plea for God Almighty to spare us for the sake of those who heed his Word and want this culture to fall in line with his will for our lives.

Assuming all you said about God and morals was true, remember, just assuming, you still contradicted yourself in the end. /sigh.

"The American culture is stretching the limits of what God will tolerate, and I fight for a lengthening (if not a turnaround) of this process."

"I am not trying to impose my personal morals on other people's lives; I am yelling out my plea for God Almighty to spare us for the sake of those who heed his Word and want this culture to fall in line with his will for our lives."

Oh, and wouldn't you capitalize his, and not word?
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« Reply #41 on: July 15, 2009, 01:31:21 PM »


Assuming all you said about God and morals was true, remember, just assuming, you still contradicted yourself in the end. /sigh.

"The American culture is stretching the limits of what God will tolerate, and I fight for a lengthening (if not a turnaround) of this process."

"I am not trying to impose my personal morals on other people's lives; I am yelling out my plea for God Almighty to spare us for the sake of those who heed his Word and want this culture to fall in line with his will for our lives."

Oh, and wouldn't you capitalize his, and not word?

Assuming it is God's morals that I am trying to uncover both through an experience of reality through history and through the Bible's revelation of his will for us, how am I contradicting myself when I vote in line with his morals (which I try to make mine, but do not always succeed)?
And I capitalized Word because I am referring both to God's written record for us and to his living Son, the Word made flesh. I did not capitalize "his" because I don't want to get stereotyped as one of those overly zealous hypocrites we've all met who give Christians a bad name. Sometimes, in reverence and respect due only to God, I'll capitalize "he," "him" or "his", but I didn't think it was appropriate in this forum.
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« Reply #42 on: July 15, 2009, 01:53:18 PM »

The American culture is stretching its limits of what God will tolerate, and I will fight for a lengthening of this process. I paraphrased what you said. Essentially, in this statement you say that you think America is turning immoral and God will eventually punish us for it; but you will fight to lengthen or turn around this process.

The only way to do this is to turn more Americans into Christians, and for them to follow your pseudo-morals.

However, you say this, "I am not trying to impose my personal morals on other people's lives."

I'm sorry if you can't see the contradiction, but it is glaring. Lastly, you then forsake the people you are trying to convert with this statement, "I am yelling out my plea for God Almighty to spare us for the sake of those who heed his Word and want this culture to fall in line with his will for our lives."

Now you are selfishly praying for people like yourself to get spared by God's wrath and not everyone else.

Essentially, you want to convert people, but you don't want to impose your beliefs, and you are only praying for people like yourself to be spared.

Contradictory, and rather rude statements. As one of those people who are not christian, and don't fall in line with your pseudo-morals, am I insulted that you won't pray for me.

If I believed what you believed, I would convert everyone. Holy crap, burning in Hell forever sounds like a bitch. And yet you want to convert people like me, but you won't because you don't want to impose your beliefs upon me, and you won't even pray for me.

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« Reply #43 on: July 17, 2009, 08:17:14 AM »

Lastly, you then forsake the people you are trying to convert with this statement, "I am yelling out my plea for God Almighty to spare us for the sake of those who heed his Word and want this culture to fall in line with his will for our lives."

Now you are selfishly praying for people like yourself to get spared by God's wrath and not everyone else.

Essentially, you want to convert people, but you don't want to impose your beliefs, and you are only praying for people like yourself to be spared.

Contradictory, and rather rude statements. As one of those people who are not christian, and don't fall in line with your pseudo-morals, am I insulted that you won't pray for me.

If I believed what you believed, I would convert everyone. Holy crap, burning in Hell forever sounds like a bitch. And yet you want to convert people like me, but you won't because you don't want to impose your beliefs upon me, and you won't even pray for me.

Man, show a little love.
London_Rain, I sympathize for you. Pyroclasticlux told me about the run-in you had with some snooty All-Atheists-are-rude Christians. I would like to apologize on behalf of them; although I find most atheists to be rather disrespectful of my beliefs once they enter into dialogue with me about beliefs (after all, they consider them fairy tales and give them little credence whatsoever), I would not go so far as to say all are rude to me. I know that some of the people who have shown me kindness must have been atheists, unbeknown to me. And I believe that people who are trying to justify their existence and make the most of a more-or-less aimless life (on the grand scale, not saying you have no goals--just that the big picture doesn't really take you into account) are going to be nicer people, overall, than those who recognize sin in their lives and cry out to a Savior to make them count in this life. We Christians are a sorry lot, because it takes hitting rock-bottom (or a cushioned upbringing) to be willing to turn your life over to someone else, even if that someone is Jesus. And so I'm sorry that some of Jesus's sick people (I'm punning off the verse that says "It is not the healthy who need a doctor, but the sick"--you can quote me on that if you wish to say that all Christians are sick, sick, sick--Matthew 9:12) hurt you. I forget, in the culture's onslaught against Christians, that atheists, too, get hurt in the war. You just made atheists all the more human to me.
Part of being a Christian is that Jesus never imposed his beliefs on anyone--he preached to many, but, unlike Mohammed, he never held them to the sword and said "Convert. It's for your own good." Likewise, I can't impose my beliefs on anyone else, though I try through dialogues like this one to make my beliefs more believable or at least understandable, and hopefully appealing (though the crucified Christ sounds like foolishness to those whom the Holy Spirit does not touch). And you can bet I'm praying for you, London_Rain, and for Pyroclasticlux, and Scott, and TheSleeper, in case they need it. It's tiring sometimes, but like you said, it would be damnable for me to give up.
And let me clarify something. When I say, "I am yelling out my plea for God Almighty to spare us for the sake of those who heed his Word and want this culture to fall in line with his will for our lives," the "us" I'm referring to is these United States and all the people belonging to it. I make my plea on behalf of Christians, because he's most likely to listen that way. Kind of like when I was little, I told my little sister to ask for a glass of water for me after bedtime because my parents were more likely to give in to her than to me. And kind of like how Abraham cried out to God to spare (all of) Sodom and Gomorrah for the sake of 10 who were faithful (which unfortunately for Lot and Abraham didn't exist). Does that make sense? Or am I still missing something?
And again, as a Christian and part of our governmental process, I have a responsibility to vote my opinion of how our laws should work. I think our laws should fall in line with God's moral laws as we discover them through experience (history) and through the Bible. I don't think my personal opinions (such as making English a common, unifying, official language and fining those who ignore the difference between it's and its) are worth pushing for. But when I see our culture straying from God's norms (not my norms), I have to put my foot down and say, "This isn't right."  Would you do any less with your perceptions of what is "right"?
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« Reply #44 on: July 17, 2009, 10:53:13 AM »

Wow, very long post, thank you.

I would just like to say, that my above post was written in a joking manor. I probably should have made that more clear, that's my fault. On the case about Atheists treating you rudely, mainly because they think your beliefs are about as credible as a 5 year old talking about his/her imaginary friend, I have to ask you a question.

Assuming that Atheists don't respect you because they think your beliefs are silly and assuming that you find beliefs like, Zeus casting down lightning from Mt. Olympus, Hindu beliefs and rituals, Norse Gods (which are actually really interesting), and all other religious beliefs, do you yourself look upon them in any lesser way?

Be honest with yourself, we aren't going to judge you, because we all feel this way. When a belief is so different, and foreign to yours that you grew up with all your life, it is very hard to look at them without having some sort of prejudice. I'm using the term prejudice very lightly.

Do I find your beliefs silly? Yes. When I open the bible, I see primitive writings that don't have any support at all except for those that are deluded enough to believe in them. And don't get offended by 'deluded' because you yourself think that about other religions. It is just how humans are. We aren't perfect, and we certainly weren't created in the image of a God who is supposed to be perfect.

As far as voting is concerned, I do think your a hypocrite. You don't want to push your beliefs on people; yet, you would most likely vote to ban gay marriage or a ban on abortion or stem cell research. I would respect you more if you admitted that you did in fact push your beliefs on people, just as everyone else does.

It's okay to admit stuff that society would say was wrong, but they are just being hypocrites. If you believe in something, admit it, follow through with it, and don't try to make yourself more appealing to everyone. The thing I respect more than anything else is being honest.
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