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« on: October 02, 2008, 02:39:58 PM »

As difficult as this question is, currently society is doing an OK job at managing on its own.

Major Upsides:
- Abortions that would otherwise get carried out in a non-sterile, illegal environment are being handled with sterility and care
- Rape/incest victims aren't forced to carry an unwanted pregnancy to full term, helping to reduce the emotional and physical trauma
- Women with the option to abort have a much better chance at higher education, better jobs and a decrease on welfare dependence
- Children born with genetic defects aren't forced to live

Major Downsides:
- Fetuses are terminated (killed/murdered)
- Can be emotionally traumatizing in and of itself
- Can be used as another form of contraception

If I left any out, let me know.

What's your stance?
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« Reply #1 on: October 02, 2008, 03:35:33 PM »



emphatically pro-choice.


if you're not sure why, check out the 'election 2008' and 'the big G' topic threads.

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« Reply #2 on: October 03, 2008, 08:29:51 AM »



emphatically pro-choice.


if you're not sure why, check out the 'election 2008' and 'the big G' topic threads.



Since this is debate, I'm going to play the devil's advocate and ask:

When is it OK to murder babies?
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« Reply #3 on: October 04, 2008, 09:25:43 PM »

pro-choice.
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« Reply #4 on: October 05, 2008, 08:40:09 AM »


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When is it OK to murder babies?

in the first trimester only (unless the mother's life is endangered...and even then, it's case-by-case):

-when carrying and having the child would cause far more emotional damage to the mother (rape/incest), especially when the likelihood of defects & disabilities is considerably heightened;
-when the woman weighs her options carefully and makes an informed decision to do so.

just because i wouldn't in a given situation doesn't mean i can't tell someone else what they should or shouldn't do.

i think adoption is a great alternative, but that also presents problems of its own (ie the abandonment,  mistreatment, lack of funds, lack of compassion, and other issues TS addressed in the other thread).


it shouldn't be used for birth control, but the issue is far from being black-and-white.


(also, stem-cell research can be incredibly beneficial to humanity; they might as well use the cells when they are available instead of tossing them out.)

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« Reply #5 on: October 05, 2008, 11:56:00 PM »

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When is it OK to murder babies?

in the first trimester only (unless the mother's life is endangered...and even then, it's case-by-case):


Currently, Roe vs. Wade allows both first and second trimester abortions, based on a decision by the woman with her doctor.

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-when carrying and having the child would cause far more emotional damage to the mother (rape/incest), especially when the likelihood of defects & disabilities is considerably heightened;

How do you know that the mother will suffer emotional damage in the future? And how much emotional damage is enough to warrant the killing of the child?

Why should the child get screwed out of life for what it could not control?

Also, who determines whether a life is worth living (rape/incest babies) in the long-run, damaged or not? Essentially, who gets to play God and say who lives or dies?

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-when the woman weighs her options carefully and makes an informed decision to do so.

So if the woman has second thoughts in the first trimester because she thinks "I don't want pregnancy to ruin my figure" and decides to get an abortion, that seems legitimate to you?

How about if she just feels like "this isn't the right time." ?

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just because i wouldn't in a given situation doesn't mean i can't tell someone else what they should or shouldn't do.

i think adoption is a great alternative, but that also presents problems of its own (ie the abandonment,  mistreatment, lack of funds, lack of compassion, and other issues TS addressed in the other thread).

Who's to say who would absolutely end up in a bad home or without a home at all? And even if those children don't live in homes, who's to say they wouldn't get some enjoyment out of life?

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it shouldn't be used for birth control, but the issue is far from being black-and-white.

(also, stem-cell research can be incredibly beneficial to humanity; they might as well use the cells when they are available instead of tossing them out.)


God puts a soul into the bundle of cells as soon as it multiplies. Are you saying it's OK to murder those babies for the sake of science?
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« Reply #6 on: October 05, 2008, 11:56:21 PM »

pro-choice.

What's your reasoning, my Christian friend? :]
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« Reply #7 on: October 06, 2008, 09:49:26 AM »


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Currently, Roe vs. Wade allows both first and second trimester abortions, based on a decision by the woman with her doctor.

you're right.  i flaked.

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How do you know that the mother will suffer emotional damage in the future? And how much emotional damage is enough to warrant the killing of the child?

Why should the child get screwed out of life for what it could not control?

Also, who determines whether a life is worth living (rape/incest babies) in the long-run, damaged or not? Essentially, who gets to play God and say who lives or dies?

rape/incest cases are pretty damaging.  i was raped (not something i generally talk about, but...yah), and had i also become pregnant from it (fortunately, i did not), that would've compounded the psychological issues i was going through, because it's an added stressor in an already difficult time.  i know it would've been very difficult for me to handle.

depending on the case, it might be worse for the parent to carry and have that child, because the mother might be resentful and project those things onto their child - the product of such a traumatic event.  rather than be that sort of parent, especially when they're not ready for parenthood, they realise that they'd rather terminate the pregnancy.

i'm not sure what i'd do in that situation.  i'd like to say i wouldn't have aborted it, but i can't know for sure because i've never been there.


also, if god doesn't exist, then it's an issue of going against nature.  i wonder if the religious lot's opinions would change if there were no invisible man telling them what to do.


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So if the woman has second thoughts in the first trimester because she thinks "I don't want pregnancy to ruin my figure" and decides to get an abortion, that seems legitimate to you?

How about if she just feels like "this isn't the right time." ?

i definitely do not feel that losing one's figure is even a remotely legitimate reason to have an abortion, but it's been known to happen.  however, i don't feel i have the right to tell that woman what to do, no matter how freakin' stupid i think that reason is.

both cases would better be solved by choosing adoption, in my opinion, but i think it really depends on the situation.

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Who's to say who would absolutely end up in a bad home or without a home at all? And even if those children don't live in homes, who's to say they wouldn't get some enjoyment out of life?

that can't be predicted, i realise.  however, the world is already far over-populated, and babies that don't have homes to go to don't help matters.  that sounds incredibly harsh, but it's true: we can barely take care of those that are alive right now, and we'll have to further extend ourselves and our resources to unwanted childen.  we are running out of food, global warming is getting worse, and cities are expanding into each other because we have to keep building.  in this country alone, the healthcare system is already woefully inadequate.

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God puts a soul into the bundle of cells as soon as it multiplies. Are you saying it's OK to murder those babies for the sake of science?

these babies aren't being aborted FOR their stem cells,
the stem cells are a by-product OF aborted babies.
instead of tossing them in rubbish bins - which is what would otherwise happen - we are making use of these cells for medical and scientific advancements to help people.

in order to prove that cells have souls, we have to first prove souls exist.  conceptually, they do, but do they physically exist?

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« Reply #8 on: October 08, 2008, 08:31:29 AM »


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Currently, Roe vs. Wade allows both first and second trimester abortions, based on a decision by the woman with her doctor.

you're right.  i flaked.

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How do you know that the mother will suffer emotional damage in the future? And how much emotional damage is enough to warrant the killing of the child?

Why should the child get screwed out of life for what it could not control?

Also, who determines whether a life is worth living (rape/incest babies) in the long-run, damaged or not? Essentially, who gets to play God and say who lives or dies?

rape/incest cases are pretty damaging.  i was raped (not something i generally talk about, but...yah), and had i also become pregnant from it (fortunately, i did not), that would've compounded the psychological issues i was going through, because it's an added stressor in an already difficult time.  i know it would've been very difficult for me to handle.


Wow, I'm sorry that happened. It's good it's here for other people to read though. Just goes to show that it's not all black and white.

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depending on the case, it might be worse for the parent to carry and have that child, because the mother might be resentful and project those things onto their child - the product of such a traumatic event.  rather than be that sort of parent, especially when they're not ready for parenthood, they realise that they'd rather terminate the pregnancy.


The problem here is- there is no guarantee one way or the other how a child's life will turn out or how their parents will treat them. Sure, we can use statistics or even be utilitarian about it, but make no mistake, you are taking a life and all of its potential.

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i'm not sure what i'd do in that situation.  i'd like to say i wouldn't have aborted it, but i can't know for sure because i've never been there.

That's another thing I was going to point out, but you hit it. Any of us can make conjectures but until we've lived through it, they're just idealism.

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also, if god doesn't exist, then it's an issue of going against nature.  i wonder if the religious lot's opinions would change if there were no invisible man telling them what to do.

But of course. I'm sure a lot of people would think differently about it without the fear of a higher and eternal judgment.

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So if the woman has second thoughts in the first trimester because she thinks "I don't want pregnancy to ruin my figure" and decides to get an abortion, that seems legitimate to you?

How about if she just feels like "this isn't the right time." ?

i definitely do not feel that losing one's figure is even a remotely legitimate reason to have an abortion, but it's been known to happen.  however, i don't feel i have the right to tell that woman what to do, no matter how freakin' stupid i think that reason is.

So in other words, you condone abortions for any reason the mother chooses necessary?

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both cases would better be solved by choosing adoption, in my opinion, but i think it really depends on the situation.

That's assuming adoption is an option. It's not always.

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Who's to say who would absolutely end up in a bad home or without a home at all? And even if those children don't live in homes, who's to say they wouldn't get some enjoyment out of life?

that can't be predicted, i realise.  however, the world is already far over-populated, and babies that don't have homes to go to don't help matters.  that sounds incredibly harsh, but it's true: we can barely take care of those that are alive right now, and we'll have to further extend ourselves and our resources to unwanted childen.  we are running out of food, global warming is getting worse, and cities are expanding into each other because we have to keep building.  in this country alone, the healthcare system is already woefully inadequate.

By that logic, we should start killing off the elderly and the sick as well.

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God puts a soul into the bundle of cells as soon as it multiplies. Are you saying it's OK to murder those babies for the sake of science?

these babies aren't being aborted FOR their stem cells,
the stem cells are a by-product OF aborted babies.
instead of tossing them in rubbish bins - which is what would otherwise happen - we are making use of these cells for medical and scientific advancements to help people.

The stem cells that are best for research are those taken from blastocysts (human embryos). It kills the embryo. Not to mention, these aren't babies that are killed based on the premise that they would die anyway. They're killed specifically for those cells.

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in order to prove that cells have souls, we have to first prove souls exist.  conceptually, they do, but do they physically exist?

So we should act without knowing either way?
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« Reply #9 on: October 11, 2008, 09:37:39 AM »

It really depends on what you think a baby is.  To me a fetus is not necessarily a baby.  a conglomerate of cells with vaguely forming organs is not a baby to me.  I don't know at what point a person has a soul, but I find it hard to believe that a soul is formed immediately upon an egg's fertilisation.  And even if it is, what damage is imparted upon the soul in the case of abortion? should the embryo spontaneously abort, which happens by some estimates up to 50% of the time, what happens to the soul of that embryo if there is one?  Big questions, I guess, questions I don't know the answer to. 

Anyway, I guess to me, a life already on earth is more important to a life not yet born, which is my major backing behind woman's choice.  That said, in the 3rd trimester, despite the life not yet being born, I think the baby is more of a baby and less of a fetus and partial birth abortions are hideous and probably a lot more traumatising to everyone involved than a first or even second trimester abortion.

Abortion is a difficult issue, and really the most important thing to do is to prevent abortions from happening with decent education and availability of birth control.
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« Reply #10 on: October 13, 2008, 07:33:37 AM »

It really depends on what you think a baby is.  To me a fetus is not necessarily a baby.  a conglomerate of cells with vaguely forming organs is not a baby to me.  I don't know at what point a person has a soul, but I find it hard to believe that a soul is formed immediately upon an egg's fertilisation.  And even if it is, what damage is imparted upon the soul in the case of abortion? should the embryo spontaneously abort, which happens by some estimates up to 50% of the time, what happens to the soul of that embryo if there is one?  Big questions, I guess, questions I don't know the answer to. 

Right, it does depend on what you think a baby is. It also depends on how souls work: do they get to jump around until they find a keeper? Do they just get judged right there on the spot as soon as we drain the brain? Harsh.

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Anyway, I guess to me, a life already on earth is more important to a life not yet born, which is my major backing behind woman's choice.  That said, in the 3rd trimester, despite the life not yet being born, I think the baby is more of a baby and less of a fetus and partial birth abortions are hideous and probably a lot more traumatising to everyone involved than a first or even second trimester abortion.

Abortion is a difficult issue, and really the most important thing to do is to prevent abortions from happening with decent education and availability of birth control.

The problem here is that the people taking issue with these things are also speaking on God's behalf. Although it's not covered in the Bible (how could it be?), people are jumping into Jesus' spot on this one and speaking for him. This becomes difficult because no one is in the same disposition as Jesus was. Sure, he could say "do not kill the baby" but, assuming he is who he says he is, he could also just bring the baby back to life. Unfair advantage.

In short, no one is in the same disposition to make those kinds of decisions for other people.
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« Reply #11 on: October 13, 2008, 07:00:50 PM »


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In short, no one is in the same disposition to make those kinds of decisions for other people.

i don't have to answer regarding my other post, scott, because you just did it for me. Tongue
i wish i were as concise and organised with my thoughts, though. haha

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« Reply #12 on: October 14, 2008, 02:31:05 PM »


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In short, no one is in the same disposition to make those kinds of decisions for other people.

i don't have to answer regarding my other post, scott, because you just did it for me. Tongue
i wish i were as concise and organised with my thoughts, though. haha



Haha .. thanks for the compliment. You should still try to pick apart my arguments as it will help us both out.
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« Reply #13 on: July 10, 2009, 01:58:30 PM »



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I also wonder why current morals passed on by society allow for the killing of our future contributors to that very society they're trying to preserve. But that's for the abortion forum...
(quoted by melidere in where do you stand on gay marriage?)

I wanted to address this, so I put it in the relevant forum.

how do you know that they are all future positive contributors to society?  how many would've otherwise become murderers, rapists, general criminals?
it is incredibly presumptuous (and, to me, incredibly aggravating) when pro-'lifers' (only where the unborn are concerned, of course) assume that all unborn life would've grown up to be model citizens.
we don't assume that every child born will likewise be upstanding assets to society, because that's just not how life works.

it seems to me just another example of propaganda.



I'd love to address scott's previous post, so I'll try to do so next time - my last post (in 'where do you stand...') took longer than I'd thought it would.

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how do you know that they are all future positive contributors to society?  how many would've otherwise become murderers, rapists, general criminals?
it is incredibly presumptuous (and, to me, incredibly aggravating) when pro-'lifers' (only where the unborn are concerned, of course) assume that all unborn life would've grown up to be model citizens.
we don't assume that every child born will likewise be upstanding assets to society, because that's just not how life works.

You make a good point, although evolutionarily speaking, we're decreasing the gene pool from which "better" mutations could come.
I must add that pro-lifers stand especially for the weak who have difficulty speaking for themselves--hence the focus on the unborn, the aged, the disabled, etc.
Whether or not these people would have turned out horribly is not the point; all humans should have a chance to make a life for themselves--and that means creating an environment where they can be born, raised well, and free and prepared to make choices and learn from their mistakes. Bill Press is right that we can't stop caring for them once they've exited the womb.
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